{"id":1393,"date":"2014-07-11T10:02:08","date_gmt":"2014-07-11T14:02:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/?p=1393"},"modified":"2014-07-11T10:02:09","modified_gmt":"2014-07-11T14:02:09","slug":"leadership-lemonade","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/?p=1393","title":{"rendered":"Leadership &#038; Lemonade"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/?attachment_id=1005\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-1005\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1005\" src=\"http:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/TAATAW_LOGO_H_color-tagline-300x122.jpg\" alt=\"TAA_R2_EDIT-CS3\" width=\"300\" height=\"122\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s Friday so this is a bit of a light hearted post, sharing a peek behind the curtain and into my life.<\/p>\n<p>I have two sons who, without a doubt, are my proudest accomplishments. My younger son is a senior in high school and heading off to college in a year. This summer, he and has friends have been using my kitchen as a laboratory of sorts. Their goal is to\u00a0master a recipe for the perfect glass of lemonade. This experiment has been ongoing for almost a month and each batch is getting better. I&#8217;ve been appointed &#8220;Chief Taste Tester,&#8221; a new title to add to my resume! (I\u2019m also the one who mops the floor when they are done.)<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday I was working from my home office, right above the kitchen and heard some quiet conversation below. I went downstairs and found four boys busy perfecting their craft. Each one had a job (washing, juicing, mixing, pouring) and the ongoing conversation had little to do with the task at hand, but instead was focused on the upcoming soccer game on TV. I could not identify a leader or boss. \u00a0The scene reminded me of a well-rehearsed Broadway show. All the actors came together naturally with no missteps and nobody shouting orders.<\/p>\n<p>These boys have known each other since kindergarten and have grown up together as friends. What do they have in common?<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>To start with, lots of history, similar demographics, and years to build trust<\/li>\n<li>Strong family values<\/li>\n<li>There\u2019s not a single female among their siblings<\/li>\n<li>None are the first-born.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Perhaps these similar attributes don&#8217;t have a thing to do with their ability to work together in such a natural way, but my guess is some, or maybe all of them\u00a0play a role.<\/p>\n<p>Now let&#8217;s redirect this post to the time and money organizations spend on team building exercises, employee engagement programs, leadership training and culture change.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Maybe\u00a0instead, they should simply make lemonade.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The next time you want to engage your team, buy a few bags of lemons, some sugar, and step back. \u00a0You have set up a powerful learning experiment in trust building and teamwork. The observations and conclusions may prove to be far more valuable than the ingredients purchased. \u00a0Compare the results to my experience. How are they similar? How do they differ? What\u2019s working fine? What\u2019s not? Let me know how it goes, and <strong>don&#8217;t forget to send me your recipe.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Barbara Brooks Kimmel<\/strong>\u00a0is the Executive Director of\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/trustacrossamerica.com\/index.shtml\">Trust Across America-Trust Around the World<\/a>\u00a0whose mission is to help organizations build trust. She is also the editor of the award winning\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/trustacrossamerica.com\/order.shtml\">TRUST INC.<\/a>\u00a0book series. In 2012 Barbara was named &#8220;One of 25 Women Changing the World&#8221; by Good Business International.<\/p>\n<h5><\/h5>\n<p>.\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/?attachment_id=1233\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-1233\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-1233\" src=\"http:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/TrustInccover313-e1402235843856.jpg\" alt=\"Print\" width=\"141\" height=\"212\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/?attachment_id=1225\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-1225\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-image-1225 alignnone\" src=\"http:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/ND-Trust-CEO-cvr-140602-ft-e1401989324478.jpg\" alt=\"ND Trust CEO cvr 140602-ft\" width=\"153\" height=\"212\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Feel free to leave a comment or drop her a note at <a href=\"&#x6d;a&#x69;&#x6c;t&#x6f;&#58;B&#x61;&#114;b&#x61;r&#x61;&#x40;t&#x72;&#117;s&#x74;&#97;c&#x72;o&#x73;&#x73;a&#x6d;&#x65;r&#x69;&#99;a&#x2e;&#99;o&#x6d;\">&#66;&#x61;r&#x62;a&#114;&#x61;&#64;&#x74;r&#117;&#x73;t&#x61;c&#x72;&#x6f;s&#x73;a&#x6d;e&#114;&#x69;c&#x61;.&#99;&#x6f;m<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Copyright \u00a9 2014, Next Decade, Inc.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-best-social-bookmark\"><ul class=\"socials\"><li class=\"oknotizie\"><a href=\"http:\/\/oknotizie.virgilio.it\/post.html.php?url=https:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/?p=1393&title=Leadership &#038; Lemonade\" title=\"Share this on oknotizie\"> <\/a><\/li><li class=\"twitter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/home?status=Leadership &#038; Lemonade &raquo; https:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/?p=1393\" title=\"Share this on twitter\"> <\/a><\/li><li class=\"delicious\"><a href=\"http:\/\/del.icio.us\/post?url=https:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/?p=1393&title=Leadership &#038; Lemonade\" title=\"Share this on del.icio.us\"> <\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 It&#8217;s Friday so this is a bit of a light hearted post, sharing a peek behind the curtain and into my life. 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