{"id":2362,"date":"2014-11-23T13:25:45","date_gmt":"2014-11-23T18:25:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/?p=2362"},"modified":"2014-11-23T13:25:45","modified_gmt":"2014-11-23T18:25:45","slug":"trustgiving2014-final-message-just-say-no","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/?p=2362","title":{"rendered":"#TRUSTGiving2014 Final Message, Just Say &#8220;No&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div class=\"boxyPaddingBig\" style=\"color: #000000;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/?attachment_id=2266\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-2266\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-2266\" src=\"http:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/TrustGiving-2014Large-Logo-Final-227x300.jpg\" alt=\"TrustGiving 2014 Logo-Final\" width=\"227\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/TrustGiving-2014Large-Logo-Final-227x300.jpg 227w, https:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/TrustGiving-2014Large-Logo-Final-776x1024.jpg 776w, https:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/TrustGiving-2014Large-Logo-Final.jpg 1250w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 227px) 100vw, 227px\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div class=\"boxyPaddingBig\" style=\"color: #000000;\"><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Our\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/trustacrossamerica.com\/trust-giving.shtml\">TRUSTGiving 2014<\/a>\u00a0weeklong trust awareness campaign is coming to a close. Members of our \u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/trustacrossamerica.com\/cgi-bin\/alliance.cgi\">Alliance of Trustworthy Business Experts<\/a>\u00a0have written <a href=\"http:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/\">guest blog posts<\/a>\u00a0this past week to help our readers navigate the complexities of trust and discuss what giving trust means to them.<\/p>\n<p>This post will be the last of the series.<\/p>\n<p>Imagine if people didn&#8217;t use drugs. The\u00a0&#8220;Say no to drugs&#8221; campaign would become obsolete. If nobody smoked, there would be no need for scare tactic TV commercials on the dangers of cigarettes. Similarly, if everyone could be trusted,\u00a0trust would not be considered the issue of the decade, as many believe.<\/p>\n<p><strong>We can end the trust crisis in short order by collectively choosing to shut down the people who are fueling\u00a0it.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Imagine if we\u00a0refused to support:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Those who cheat and lie<\/li>\n<li>Those who don&#8217;t keep their word<\/li>\n<li>Those whose talk is never backed up by action<\/li>\n<li>Those who show no loyalty<\/li>\n<li>Those who\u00a0hang with the &#8220;wrong&#8221; crowd<\/li>\n<li>Those who ALWAYS put their own needs first<\/li>\n<li>Those who make side door deals behind\u00a0others backs<\/li>\n<li>Those whose intentions aren&#8217;t quite what they claim<\/li>\n<li>Those who say one thing but do something different<\/li>\n<li>Those who confuse collaboration with self promotion<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>When your heart or your gut tells you that someone is doing the wrong thing, listen carefully and just say &#8220;No.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>As I wrote at the beginning of #TRUSTGiving2014,\u00a0let&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/?p=2294\">get back to basics<\/a>.\u00a0Don&#8217;t &#8220;settle&#8221; for relationships that fall short in trust.<\/p>\n<p>Happy Thanksgiving!<\/p>\n<p><strong style=\"color: #000000;\">Barbara Brooks Kimmel<\/strong><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0is the Executive Director of\u00a0<\/span><a style=\"color: #4f81d8;\" href=\"http:\/\/trustacrossamerica.com\/index.shtml\">Trust Across America-Trust Around the World<\/a><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0whose mission is to help organizations build trust. She is also the editor of the award winning\u00a0<\/span><a style=\"color: #4f81d8;\" href=\"http:\/\/trustacrossamerica.com\/order.shtml\">TRUST INC.<\/a><span style=\"color: #000000;\">\u00a0book series and the Executive Editor of\u00a0<\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/trustacrossamerica.com\/magazine.shtml\">TRUST! Magazine<\/a><span style=\"color: #000000;\">. In 2012 Barbara was named \u201cOne of 25 Women Changing the World\u201d by Good Business International.<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-best-social-bookmark\"><ul class=\"socials\"><li class=\"oknotizie\"><a href=\"http:\/\/oknotizie.virgilio.it\/post.html.php?url=https:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/?p=2362&title=#TRUSTGiving2014 Final Message, Just Say &#8220;No&#8221;\" title=\"Share this on oknotizie\"> <\/a><\/li><li class=\"twitter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/home?status=#TRUSTGiving2014 Final Message, Just Say &#8220;No&#8221; &raquo; https:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/?p=2362\" title=\"Share this on twitter\"> <\/a><\/li><li class=\"delicious\"><a href=\"http:\/\/del.icio.us\/post?url=https:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/?p=2362&title=#TRUSTGiving2014 Final Message, Just Say &#8220;No&#8221;\" title=\"Share this on del.icio.us\"> <\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We can end the trust crisis in short order by collectively choosing to shut down the people who are fueling it. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[51],"tags":[74,122,18,3,5],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2362"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2362"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2362\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2365,"href":"https:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2362\/revisions\/2365"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2362"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2362"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.trustacrossamerica.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2362"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}